Friday, September 18, 2015

Is a Memory Yours Even if You Don't Remember It?


Is a memory still yours even if you don't remember it? I definitely don't remember being a tiny baby on my first Christmas, but here I am -- lying in a car bed with my parents' Nativity in the background.


My older siblings remember this family trip to Disneyland and claim that I cried the entire time, but I'm not crying in this picture. For the record, I don't remember anything about this trip!


I don't remember my second Christmas any better than my first Christmas, but it seems like I really enjoyed this toy!

Although I remember my Dad's 1957 Chevy station wagon, I don't remember posing for this picture while hanging out the window of the car.


I don't remember most of the houses we lived in while my Dad was in the Army, but my older siblings remember many details of the places we lived.


We were crossing the English Channel in this picture, but I don't remember the boat ride. Of course, I brought Black Nose Doggy with me because he went absolutely EVERYWHERE I went.


I totally remember snuggling with Black Nose Doggy -- and White Blankie -- but I don't remember the clothes I was wearing in this photo.


I always loved dogs, whether they were real dogs like my grandparents' dog Chet or stuffed dogs like this pink dog. You guessed it -- I don't remember receiving this dog for Christmas.


I remember my brother Pat being little. I don't remember him sitting in our family high chair, but we all did -- and so did many of our children.


I don't remember sitting on the stairs, don't know what we were doing or why, but I do remember always having a lot of fun with my brothers.


I remember a few trips to Wisconsin to visit our grandparents. We always played cards on Grandma and Grandpa's front porch, even though I don't remember posing for this photo.


 This series of photos of me with my two younger brothers was the idea behind this blog. I remember absolutely nothing about visiting the traveling Sinclair Dinosaur Exhibit in the late 1960s. I don't remember Dad buying us -- and my stuffed Rin-Tin-Tin -- these cute Sinclair jackets, don't know where we were when we visited this exhibit and only know about the Sinclair Dinosaur Exhibit because of the wonders of Google searches.


I don't remember this photo, but do remember hanging upside down from the clothesline pole in my parents' back yard. I wonder if my baby sister remembers laughing at me.


You'd think I'd remember 8th grade graduation, but I only have fuzzy memories most likely only remembered because there are photos of the event. I look dazed in this photo with my celebration cake. Maybe I'm wondering if I'll remember this date 40 plus years later.

Well, what do you think? Is a memory still yours even if you don't remember it? My answer is yes. The good, the bad, the memorable and the forgotten memories -- they are all a part of who I am.

Until the next time, I'll take what I can get when I can get it and do the best I can to face each day with a smile on my face, a prayer on my lips and a song in my heart. 

Blogging Grandma Sandy, signing off for now.

Monday, August 17, 2015

First Day of School Memories


25 years ago, I sent my baby girl off 
To her first day of kindergarten.
Today my grown-up baby girl
Sends her baby girl off to kindergarten.


There are no photos from my first day of school
So many years ago.
Too young for kindergarten in one place
Too old in the next so I headed to first grade.


Kindergarten changes life forever
From home, parents and siblings.
To a much bigger world
With teachers and friends.


The lazy flip-flop days of summer
Give way to school, homework and schedules.
Daydreaming afternoons of fun
Fade into paying attention to teacher's words.


No more will my granddaughter be
The little girl waiting for the bus
To bring her big brother back home
Like her mom waited for her big sister.


Instead, she'll be one of 'them'
Those big school kids.
Shaped and molded with her teacher's love
To try new things and make new friends.


She already knows her way around school
Like her mom did back in the day
She already knows the kindergarten teacher
They're special 'water girl' friends. 


She'll take the bus each afternoon
After being a car rider in the mornings.
Making new friends along the way
As the wheels on the bus go round and round.


So many adventures await her
From field trips to dress-up days and more.
As she learns so many new things
Just like her mother before her.


The days will pass -- oh so quickly
From grade school to middle and high.
As she makes memories she'll treasure
With friends she'll love evermore.


More quickly than the blink of an eye
She'll be wearing her own cap and gown.
But for today, she'll kiss Mommy and Daddy
As she embraces the new adventure.

With love from Blogging Grandma Sandy
To our sweet princess and her Mommy
On her first day of 'big kid' school
August 17, 2015

Saturday, July 18, 2015

Taking a Trip Down Memory Lane


I'm taking a trip down memory lane
To the girl I used to be
Back in my high school days
When I was so young and free


If you remember me from back in the day
This is the girl you knew
Forty years have flown right by
And I probably don't remember you


Lots has happened to me since then
Some was good and some bad
I'm no longer that crazy wild teen
Who got in trouble from Mom and Dad 


I married once after school was done
I moved away, far from home
Left Mom and Dad and siblings behind
To Virginia I did roam


I raised three kids, the lights of my life
Of them I'm so very proud
Hang out with me for more than a few
And you'll hear me bragging about them loud


I've since divorced and married again
You'll soon meet my husband Kenny
When I married him 15 years ago
Two more children made five - more than plenty

  
Mom and Dad have left us now
It's been a difficult year
My mother-in-law followed them home
So sometimes it's hard to be filled with cheer


Our kids have grown and have kids of their own
Our three grandkids are the greatest gift of all
I'm now the family midget
Our kids have all grown so tall


Our three youngest kids made us so proud
As college grads they became
All graduating the same year
Working their way to fortune and fame


As we start the day and head down the road
We'll soon be back in town
No more science and math, just hanging with friends
From 1975 - the best LHS class around

Sandy Atkins Bottoms-Wallace
LHS Class of 1975

Saturday, July 4, 2015

Happy Birthday to America!


Happy 239th Birthday to America!
Long may our flag wave
A symbol of our freedom
Won by the blood of those who served


The price of freedom can be seen 
At Arlington National Cemetery


Row upon row of graves 
Marked with the names of heroes


Where the Old Guard honors the memory of the Unknowns


The price of freedom is seen in the faces of children
Whose parents paid the ultimate sacrifice
The cost of our freedom


 We are free to fly the flag of freedom
Free to march or ride in parades


Free to set off fireworks 
Even in our own back yards


Free to host a cookout
Free to spend time with family and friends


Free to enjoy a baseball game
And stay for the fireworks show that follows


The flag we wear on our chest
Or painted on our face


The flag of freedom
Carried by generations of heroes
As they marched off to war
Far from home and family


Freedom is not free
Our heroes know the cost



The cost of freedom
Paid by their blood and sacrifice


The brave men and women who served in Korea
More than nameless faces etched on a wall


The debt for our freedom
Can never be repaid


As we celebrate freedom
In our own special way


We sing patriotic songs
And gather with our friends


Teach our children to honor this country
And to always let freedom ring


The price of freedom can be seen
In the faces of our veterans
In the scars they carry
And the memories they can't escape


As battle raged all around
They cared for each another 
Like the brothers they became
Leaving no man behind


Never forgetting those who didn't come home


Names written on scores of dog tags


Names etched in the memories of their brothers
And forever remembered on memorial walls 


They gave us the land of the free
By their sacrifices and bravery


Leaving behind those they loved
All in the name of freedom


So line the streets and celebrate freedom
From sea to shining sea
With voices raised and flags waving
Celebrating freedom for you and me!